I saw something this weekend that really upset me and got me thinking (and my blood boiling).
My husband and I decided to treat ourselves to some Dunkin Donuts coffee on Saturday afternoon since I was craving an iced coffe. Nothing says warm weather like this bad boy

Anyway, while waiting on line there is a mother and her son behind us. The mother herself is overweight, however what bothered me was her maybe 4 yr old son. He, at such a young age, is already extremely overweight. I don’t mean baby fat, I mean very overweight.
To make matters worse, he is sucking on a push-pop (or something of the sorts)

(yes, I guess this is considered “food” now a days) and asks for a blueberry donut, to which his mother willingly buys him one. No objection. No offerring of something a little healthier. Just a quick yes.
My husband has brought up a good point, saying that he doesn’t want our kids to be the ones that never has any sugar or treats. I completely agree with this. I don’t have kids yet. I cannot claim I am a better parent than others b/c I’m not a parent at all.
But does this poor boy even have a chance?
He’s already probably considered obese at such a young age. Being that I developed somewhat young and was very involved in gymnastics, I’m upset that I had to worry about my weight and body image at such a young age. I wish that my childlike intuition regarding food and image could have lasted longer.
I hope that by presenting my kids with healthy options and showing them how great “real” food is, that they’ll choose these for themselves. I do not want to deprive them, but I want to teach them proper nutrition.
One of my favorite blogs, www.loveveggiesandyoga.com, talks about this often with her daughter. Averie seems to have done an amazing job so far at raising a girl who actually chooses the fresh fruit over processed snacks. I hope I have this kind of success when I have kids.
Has anyone else had success teaching their kids proper nutrition without being the “bad guy?” I don’t want my kids to think that they HAVE to eat their fruit and veggies. I hope that they want to b/c they’re delicious and good for us!
Does anyone else have opinions on how they hope to raise their imaginary kids of the future, as I do?
































